DON’T LET RELIGION DECEIVE YOU. BIOLOGY ALSO MATTERS IN DETERMINING A HAPPY MARRIAGE.

I know you’ll be shocked I am using this picture.

But I saw in this picture what I have been trying to communicate all this while.

Religion tells you to marry God’s will.

Then many of us will say “God told you you’re my wife or husband.”

But in the Bible there’s no place where God helped anyone find a wife or husband except in the book of Tobit.

The Bible said “He that finds a wife”.

So because of these teachings, many men and women have fallen into the trap of getting married to partners…

Without putting their biological preferences into consideration.

Biology is never important.

What kind of woman do you like ?

I have a friend who loved BIG women from our days in the university.

But because of prophecy he went to marry a skinny fine girl .

Today he cheats on her with several big women.

I want you to begin to see sexuality like food we eat vs food we don’t eat.

Biologically we’re designed to see the opposite gender as food first .

If she’s not your type and you marry her or him because….

1. You just want to get married because time is running out.

2. Because he has money.

3. Because she’s has a good job.

4. Because he or she is prayerful or decent.

One day you’ll suddenly discover that he or she is not your kind of food.

And you’ll begin to crave for your kind of food.

That’s when cheating starts.

Skin colour

Height

Size

And these physical features are important factors that decide whether marriage will work or rock.

Be careful.

Stop saying the Holy Spirit said I should marry you.

No be Holy Spirit go live with her or him.

Na you.

So look for the kind of food that you like to eat .

And marry her.

Imagine someone like me who loves pretty women going to live with a very skinny or fat woman because the Holy Spirit said?

That marriage no go work beyond six months I promise you.

I have a lot to teach o.

Let’s keep learning.