When Betrayal Turned Into a Blessing: How My Husband’s Cheating Changed My Life”

When Betrayal Turned Into a Blessing: How My Husband’s Cheating Changed My Life”

“My marriage is 4years with twins, a boy and a girl..
I earn 85k while hubby earns 120k. Before the end of the month we have planned what we will buy for the house and house much we will save.. we don’t follow any particular format but all I can say is that we plan well… And as such people think we have money.. we live in a self contain and our rent is 250k.. our home is peaceful and full of laughter.

How ever ,for over 8months hubby has been complaining that they keep cutting his money for one reason or the other and for that reason we had to make some financial adjustments..

One day, while at work, I had a fever and was asked to go home and take medication. On my way home I saw hubby from a distance with a lady, I was excited to see him. I was calling for him but he didn’t hear me so I ran after him, as for the lady I thought it was his colleague so I wasn’t bothered… Just as I was calling and running after them, I saw my husband spank the lady butt and they were both laughing, with that I had to stop chasing him and watched from a distance. They were acting all lovey dovey on the street.. I didn’t know what to think.. the fever I was having suddenly left me..

At home that day, I didn’t ask him anything, While he slept at night, I went through his message and Whatsapp and it was clean..
I went to his email, there I saw all his bank transactions, He now earn 200k, and he placed the girl on 50k salary..
I saw the Bank statement for eateries and hotels they’ve visited and other items he got for the girl.

I also found his messages with her, they communicate via email only. From there chat, it’s obvious they’ve been dating for almost a year..

I did a screenshot of everything and sent it to myself..
I woke him up and showed him everything, at first he tried to deny, but later he admitted it and started to apologize.. I asked him why he did that, if I had failed in anyway as a wife or a mother.. He said NO, just that there are too many temptations outside.
He keeps apologizing and promised to end the relationship.. After like a week I found out they are still together,

As for me, I can not pray for a cheat, or fight for him. I have left him to continue his escapades.
I thought it’s people with money that cheat but I guess I was wrong..

I was a virtuous wife, but it ended the day I caught him cheating,

As the non virtuous wife that I am now. who is 33 but looks 25. I kept my ring in the cupboard were it belongs and I have accepted the proposal of two odogwus In less than 3months.. they are spoiling me silly. For the first time in my life I have a wig of 1.2m.. I am using an I phone, I have a land in my name .

I was also offered a job with a pay off 350k monthly
People of God, my life has changed.. all thanks to my husbands cheating…

I’m not hiding it, but my husband does not see it because he is busy with his girlfriend..

Yes I still leave with my husband and kids and in his mind I’m an understanding wife..

I can’t wait for him to find out, when he eventually does, I’ll tell him the temptation outside is too much..

He will have just two choices.
1.We both forgive each other, pray for each other, cut off all third parties and marriage continues
2. We divorce and go our separate ways..

If my marriage ends, I’m never getting married again, last last marriage naa scam. I’m glad I’ve got two kids.

People of God, I can’t wait for him to find out…I have been doing everything for him to find out .But he hasn’t noticed yet

I’ll give you guys update when he eventually finds out.